Maybe its just me but I was just thinking-- forgive me my lovely ladies and my fellow chocolate sistahs especially but I feel like I need to speak on this...of course help me out if I'm wrong. So I was thinking about my relationship earlier and I know how I am and how the women in my family are towards men. We get so upset because our want us to be domestic, close to it or stay home. I mean females proclaim loud and clear many times that they are too good for domesticity. I agree that no I don't want to be seen as only good for domestic ways, but have you ever thought, (African American women especially) if our black men were simply looking out for us? I mean back in the day immediately after we all became free the men didn't really fight for we women to have rights. Im not mad at them because clearly we handled ourselves, thanks so much Sojourner and friends. But honestly, maybe their logic was that we are finally free how about they the men finally get to do what they had been kept from doing and that was to take care of their own families. I feel that it is in the man to take charge of the household, even the Word of God will back me up on this. True, women are still powerful creations that have such a high position in how the world really works but I just feel like from time to time, we need to cut those men a little slack, especially the ones that really do have (in their hearts) our best interests in mind.
More for ya l8r,
LivRight
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